My mother

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la Mezquita, Cordoba

This post is dedicated to my mother, Lou, who died on April 11th 2007 aged 63, and is pictured above in Codoba’s Mezquita, a place in Spain she dearly loved. My mother spent most or our childhood telling my sisters and I things like ‘How could you be bored on a day like this?’, ‘Get outside and enjoy all the beautiful things in the garden!’, and ‘stop moping, life’s too short!’ Every time a beautiful landscape was lit by a warm evening glow she would exclaim ‘Look at that wonderful light!’, so that now I can’t go anywhere at the beginning or end of the day without looking at how the changing angle of the sun causes everything it falls upon to change for the better. I know some people feel uncomfortable with posts like this, but it is simply to pass on these messages – never be bored on beautiful days, always look at the light, and, if in doubt, ‘just get out and do something!’ – a favourite piece of advice that worked pretty well for me, and, in case you’re wondering, has everything to do with Notes from Spain.

Luckily she is survived by a Ducati-driving inspiration of a father who rode a motorbike 2000 km across India with me last year and doubtless has many more such journeys ahead. Where next, Dad?

Written by Ben Curtis

April 29th, 2007 at 4:02 pm

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53 Responses to “My mother”

  1. Alan

    10 May 07 at 12:27 pm

    I haven’t been around for a bit so I have just read your sad news. I’d like to offer my deepest sympathy to you at this difficult time. I have a close friend who has just lost his mother too and I can’t possibly imagine how it feels. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.

  2. celia s

    14 May 07 at 12:46 am

    Deepest condolences,Ben.
    I have been without my computer for a while and have just been catching up on previous posts.
    Thinking about you and your family at this difficult time.

  3. Martine

    15 May 07 at 6:29 pm

    Her life through you continues to touch people all over the world. Deepest sympathies and warmest wishes.

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